sometimes its too much involvement. some kids have every moment of their life planned for them. school all day cheerleading baseball football dance class church youth groups gymnastics library and on and on. then all of a sudden they have unschedualed time and they dont know what to do. so the have three choices 1 hang out at the Mall. 2 walk around town aimlessly. 3 play video games, and all the while they do this they talk on the cell phone with someone else who hasn't been told what to do. wer were taught very early how to invent something to do how to seek out some fun not to rely on someone else to plan it for you