have you ever worked through an elected government official to try to address a specific problem (other than general complaints like too much taxes or money being wasted)?
My experiences have been that the smaller the government unit, the more responsive the representative is to the people represented.
I think your problem is that your "vision" of Cheektowaga is in the minority, and you take "no, we won't do that because the majority elected me to do it a different way" as a failure of government when in fact it is exactly how government is supposed to work.
If you can't get your candidate elected through the normal process, then you want to impose all sorts of restrictions on who people can vote for to try give your otherwise rejected candidates a better chance at winning.
You could learn a lot from reading and contemplating Mellisa's message to her supporters after the election.
"So and so's brother and sister and cousins all work for the town" is a BS complaint. It makes no difference who is or is not employed by the town. The services and programs are going to be the same because of the majority of voters want those services and programs. Spend your time and resources trying to convince the majority of voters to have programs and services to your liking instead of attacking people because of a blood relationship or membership in a political party.
Ted had a fair opportunity to convince the majority of voters that his way was the better way, and even I voted for him, but he lost, not because anyone's relative is employed by the town, but because the majority of eligible voters weren't convinced that his way was the better way.